The Risks And Consequences Of Taking On A Supporting Role In Your Mom Life, Episode 182
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Personal – You dreamt about where you’d travel, live, and work someday to no longer dreaming
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Clients – You imagined making a difference in your field but you are not using your hard-earned degree
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Mom friends – You were a marketing rock star yet it’s been years since you had a glamorous job
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Tim Ferriss
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Tom Bilyeu
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Rich Roll
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Tony Robbins
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Rich Roll
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Jesse Itzler
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GaryVee
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James Altucher
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Business books and case studies
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Coaching courses focused on mindset
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Meditation courses
Kids or being the primary caregiver of kids
Thoughts on what it’s like to feel misunderstood as a mom with big dreams
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Mom goes to dance class with daughter
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Mom has a teen document her day with a drone
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Seeing yourself as worthy of understanding your capabilities
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Learning how to use this gift of a fertile imagination and constantly seek ways to sharpen this tool
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Using the reality of a situation to your advantage
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Unleashing the potential moms have when we use our superpower for ourselves
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Exposing your kids to your life’s ups and downs when pursuing big dreams to really pass along resiliency to them
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Engaging in new spheres personal and professional so your kids witness how you approach new situations and find your tribe
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Encouraging your kids to own their worth by doing the same for yourself either by building a business or side hustle that makes an impact
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